What are Male Masturbators?

If you are a man and do not own a male masturbator then we highly recommend you consider adding one to your toy collection. These babies were specifically designed for you! Made to increase your solo pleasure experience and bring your orgasm to another level. Masturbators have been around for over two decades and took the sex toy world by storm. With an industry inundated with toys to pleasure a women, the male masturbators were a welcomed addition. Male masturbation is not only prevalent but widely accepted, making this toy a must have item.

Features of a Male Masturbator

There are many different types of male masturbators on the market. With so many different options to choose from, we have outlined the two main designs.

First, the Fleshlight. The Fleshlight was designed to mimic a women’s vagina. They come in slender cases which increases the tightness around a man’s penis. The level of tightness is measures in STU’s, or Stamina Training Units. The ultimate goal of the STU’s is to help a man last longer in the sack. The Fleshlight also comes in a variety of vibrating options. The vibrations can create more intense sensations during maturation. When selecting a fleshlight, you can literally pick everything from the texture, to the size, to the color. There are even see through fleshlights so you can see the action of your stroking.

Second, the stroker. Strokers are more discrete and are typically soft, small devices that can be used during masturbation. They are mostly made from soft jelly-like plastic and have a flexible/elastic feel to them. The sensation you will experience is derived from the tension of the material around your penis and the pressure you are applying with your hand. Strokers come in a variety of textures, colors, and sizes. Some of the common strokers you can find are: water filled, warming, textured and vibrating.

How to Use the Male Masturbator for Self Pleasure

This is pretty self explanatory. If you know how to give yourself a hand job, well you basically just throw in some added vibration or texture to take the experience to a new level. Once you decide what type of masturbator you want, simply insert your penis into it (if using a fleshlight) or wrap the masturbator around your penis. Begin with slow steady strokes and gradually increase the speed to your liking. Experiment with the different vibrations and/or pulses to see what feels best. If using a fleshlight, experiment with different sizes. Some are made smaller which can increase the tightness around your penis.

How to Use the Male Masturbator with Your Partner

There is something very erotic about watching your partner pleasure themselves. The simple act of watching this private moment can arouse and ignite a passion you didn’t know existed. If you are feeling a bit more daring, partake in some anal play while your man is stroking his penis. Stand behind him and watch his body quiver as you run your fingers along his anus and apply pressure to his perineum. You will feel closer than ever and this typical solo play can become part of your foreplay routine.

How to Use a Male Masturbator with Lubricant, Stimulants, or Enhancements

Let’s be honest here, wetter is always better when using sex toys. Without the help of a women’s natural lubrication, you will definitely want to add some lubricant to your next solo play. We always recommend using a water based lubricant since it will help your toy last for years to come. The added wetness during masturbation can increase the sensation and intensity of the act. We also offer a variety of male enhancements. These are designed to either delay orgasm, stimulate an erection, or increase your sex drive. Experiment with the option that helps you get the desired result you are looking for.

How to Select the Best Male Masturbator

Couples Toy Store offers a variety of male masturbators. With so many options on the market, we’ve broken down the list to help you make the best selection.


These options provide an additional sensation during masturbation. They come in different textures and vibration levels.


These masturbators come with varying levels of tightness and the option to add WaterWieners to increase stimulation. The WaterWieners can be warmed in the microwaved or chilled in the refrigerator. The varying temperatures can create an entirely new experience during masturbation. 

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