Best Sex Toys For Couples Guide

Sex toys are a novelty that can bring you and your partner closer than ever. These wonderful tools can enhance your relationship, liven up your sex life, and create more intimacy between the sheets. When deciding to introduce sex toys into your relationship, you and your partner should have an open and honest conversation about it. What is your goal as a couple? What do you hope to gain from bringing toys into the bedroom? Are you looking to just spice things up? Are you in a sexual slump? Are you hoping to take your sexual play a step further? Whatever the choice is, the decision to begin using sex toys should be mutually agreed upon. Once you’ve made this decision, you are about to embark on a new and exciting journey together. The benefits of using sex toys with your partner are endless!

Best Sex Toys For Couples Product Guide

Enhance communication

Communication is one of the most important parts of a relationship. Little or poor communication can lead to big problems. Introducing sex toys into your relationship requires you to communicate. Not only to make the decision to start, but all throughout the journey of using the toys. You should feel comfortable telling your partner what you like, what you don’t like, what feels good. Talking open and honestly about your sexual experience can strengthen your communication skills. 

Enhance the spark

Whether you realize it or not, bringing sex toys into the bedroom can spark a new level of curiosity about your partner. Remember the excitement you felt when you first started dating? The butterflies? The giddiness? Sex toys can help you relive that excitement over and over again. You may even learn something new about your partner. Maybe he likes a certain type of lube, or maybe she wants you to focus on external stimulation. The new experiences will illicit deeper conversations and growth for both parties. 

Enhance comfort

If you and your partner have been dating or married for a long period of time, you may have gotten all too cozy in the comfort zone. Bringing sex toys into your relationship will not only enhance your sexual experience but can take you outside of your comfort zone. Change can be uncomfortable but when you are experiencing this change with someone you care for, huge relationship gains can follow. You will be expanding your likes, dislikes, strenghts and weaknesses…and you will grow together as a couple. 

Where to start?

Now that we’ve given you a few of the key ways sex toys can enhance your relationship, let’s get started with choosing the perfect toy! Below, we’ve broken down our favorite, and some of the most popular, toys that are perfect for anyone from beginners to experienced users. Each category includes pre-selected options of toys to start with, as well as information about each type of toy. You can take our selections, or you can delve deeper into each category and select a toy that is perfect for you. 

Sex Toys for beginners

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We-Vibe Pivot Cock Ring

$109.00
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Vibrators

LELO Gigi 2 Vibrator

$139.95 – $149.00
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Anal

Fun Factory Anal Bootie Plug – Small

$34.99
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Kegel

Rianne S Kegel Playballs

$29.99 – $32.95

If you and your partner have never used a sex toy before or are just starting to dabble in this exciting world, we’ve got the perfect toys to start with. These toys are easy to use, featuring simple on/off buttons, they are easy to control, and they don’t have an overwhelming amount of vibration settings/modes. Not only have we tried, and loved, the toys listed in this category…but they also rank among the highest for best sex toys for beginners.

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Cock Rings

This toy is the sure fire way to increase a man’s engorgement and lead to a longer erection. The most basic style of ring goes around the base of the penis (like the one shown above). Most cock rings are elastic and flexible, making them extremely comfortable to use. You can choose from simple vibrations to multiple waves of pleasure. Cock rings are a perfect toy to use as a couple because it will pleasure a woman’s clitoris while keeping his penis nice and erect. Learn more in our Cock Ring Product Guide.

G-Spot Vibrators

The elusive G-Spot is located inside the woman’s vagina along the front wall. When stimulated and pleasured, this spot will lead to an orgasm like you’ve never experienced before. G-Spot vibrators make getting to and satisfying this spot much easier. These vibrators typically have a specially designed head that will directly stimulate the G-Spot. Using this toy as a couple is extremely erotic since you will have front row seats to watch your lover pleasure your most intimate area. Learn more in our G-Spot Vibrator Product Guide.

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Butt Plugs

When you are ready to introduce anal play into your sexual relationship, butt plugs are the perfect place to start. These plugs create a feeling of fullness and can be worn during foreplay or intercourse. The unique fullness the butt plug provides, allows a woman to experience a G-Sot orgasm quicker and more intensely. The fun aspect of butt plugs is that one or both partners can use them during sex. Learn more in our Butt Plug Product Guide.

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Kegel Balls

These little balls are the perfect way to strengthen your pelvic floor so you can experience great sex. Not only do they provide a good workout, but these balls can be the perfect accompaniment to foreplay. Slip the balls in during a night on the town, or enjoy the fullness as your partner performs oral sex on you. Just the thought that you are experiencing pleasure with no one knowing can be enough to get both you and your lover aroused. Learn more in our Kegel Balls Product Guide.

Sex Toys for intermediates

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Wands

Le Wand Petite Rose Gold

$133.99
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Vibrators

LELO Tiani 3 Vibrator

$169.00 – $169.95
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Hot Octopuss Pulse III Duo Male Masturbator

$149.00
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VeDO Ohhh Bunny Kinky Bunny Vibrator

$68.99 – $70.99

Our intermediate category is for those users who are already comfortable with a variety of basic sex toys. You are knowledgeable with the different types of toys and how you can use them to experience varying levels of pleasure. These toys have a bit of flair and are the perfect “in between” toy for couples looking to experience a little more. With higher intensity levels, or different ways to control the pleasure, these sex toys for intermediates are among our favorites!

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Anal Beads

A step up from a typical anal plug, beads can add a new pleasure sensation that you’ve never experiences before. With varying ball sizes, this toy can derive sensations from gently inserting it and removing it from the anus. You may even try pulling the beads out while you are experiencing an orgasm. Anal beads provide the best experience when you are already aroused and should always be paired with lubricant. Learn more in our Anal Beads Product Guide.

Dual Pleasure Toys

Some toys are designed to pleasure more than one erogenous zone at a time. The LELO Tiani 3 (pictured above) is a perfect sex toy for couples. This toy is worn inside the woman during intercourse. The vibrations will add more sensations for her, as well as, provide your lover with external stimulation. Some dual toys are also specific for pleasuring the perineum, G-Spot, and or clitoris; like the Kinki Bunny pictured above.

Male Masturbator Couples Sex Toy
Male Masturbators

What could be more fun than adding some intensity to the classic hand job? Male Masturbators are a great toy to use solo or with your partner. The added textures, ridges, and vibrations can make your orgasm more intense than ever before. Use this on your man and add some erotic fun to your next bedroom romp. Learn more in our Male Masturbators Product Guide.

sex toys for experts

Our expert users are not afraid to try something new. Whether you like things a little kinkier, prefer dual stimulation, or enjoy pleasuring the back door, these toys will satisfy you in more ways than one. Pair these toys with warming lube, tightening serum, or enhancement gel to experience an entirely new sensation. Even for our experts, these sex toys can ignite a new passion between you and your lover.

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Anal Vibrators

You’re ready to graduate from the non vibrating to the vibrating, but what do you start with? Anal vibrators can be enjoyed by both men and woman, and are an excellent addition to intercourse. These toys can be as intense as you like with a plethora of vibration levels/settings to choose from. Some are designed to pleasure the perineum and prostate. Learn more in our Anal Vibrator Product Guide.

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Wand Massagers

These bad boys are more deceiving then they appear. Packed with loads of power, they can be an excellent addition to foreplay. The Magic Wand above is one of our favorites because of the varying speeds and large head. Watch as your lover pleasures you or enjoy this toy solo; whatever you choose you won’t be disappointed. Learn more in our Wand Massager Product Guide.