Couples Review: Lelo Tiani 3

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What is the Lelo Tiani 3?

The Lelo Tiani 3 is considered a massager and provides vibration both internally and externally.  The vibrations are controlled from the wireless remote and the SenseMotion technology allows you to switch through the variations with a flick of the wrist. The unique design of the Tiani includes an arm that vibrates inside for both partners to enjoy and another that massages the clitoris.

How does it work?

As suggested on Lelo’s website, the best position to use the Tiani is missionary. We couldn’t agree more (more on that later). Missionary position allows the Tiani to stay in place. The smaller arm is inserted into the woman’s vagina and the larger arm sits on the clitoris. You will want to get the toy into position before your man enters you. It is important to be nice and wet to make insertion easy and comfortable. Foreplay is key here…or just grab a bottle of lube. The smooth exterior feels silky smooth on the skin. The Tiani is also flexible and easy to maneuver. Once the toy is in place, have him enter you. He should feel the vibrations along the length of his penis, while you enjoy the sensations inside and on your clitoris. Experiment with the 8 different pulses and vibrations to see what feels best.

What’s Included & First Impression?

We felt like kid’s on Christmas morning unwrapping the Lelo Tiani. It was packaged in a classy black box with a satin storage pouch. The display was beautiful and luxurious; it was apparent that there was a lot of time and effort put into the presentation. The Tiani 3 not only looked high quality, but functioned exactly as described when turned on. Overall, our initial impression was very positive. Allure magazine even calls it one of the 37 best vibrators you can buy today!

The box included:

  • Lelo Tiani 3 Couples Massager
  • Wireless Remote Controller
  • Charger
  • Satin Storage Pouch
  • Warranty Registration Card
  • Detailed Instruction Manual
  • 2 AAA Batteries for Remote
Her Thoughts On The Sex Toy Review

Her Thoughts

So Jon casually mentioned to me one afternoon that he had purchased a new toy for us. He wouldn’t tell me what it was because he wanted it to be a “surprise”. He does this all the time and I never know if I should be excited or nervous. 😉 However, when the package arrived at our house I was super intrigued to find out what we’d be trying out.

I was actually surprised when he opened the box because it didn’t look like a typical sex toy. It was classy and pretty. Who knew sex toys could be pretty? We took the Lelo Tiani out of the package and explored the features. I couldn’t believe how soft it felt! I was really excited to give it a try, especially knowing that we could use it together.

In missionary position, it took some maneuvering to get the Tiani in place. With him on top, the smaller arm stayed put and I was able to feel the vibrations both internally and externally. I let him control the vibrations until we found one that we both enjoyed.  It felt amazing on my clitoris and the orgasm was nothing short of exhilarating. Overall, I am so glad we gave this toy a try and I also learned that knowing how to use the Tiani properly makes all the difference. We did play around with a few different positions (me on top, bent over, sitting), but ultimately the missionary was the best for this toy.

His Thoughts On The Sex Toy Review

His Thoughts

In full disclosure, this particular Lelo toy was my idea :-). Quite often I see something that I think would be awesome and just buy it. That’s how we got this one. Luckily she is pretty open to what I buy, which is good because she doesn’t know what it is until it shows up at the house so the unboxing experience is sometimes filled with funny faces. That really wasn’t the case with the Tiani 3 though.

The packaging for this toy is super high quality and once you get to the toy itself it is very much the same quality feel for the materials it is made of. My initial concern was how the toy would “feel” for me once in place. Would it need a ton of lube? Would it stay in place? Surprisingly the toy is super smooth and soft to the touch and when she was wet the slickness wasn’t an issue.  So thumbs up for the “feel” while in place for us guys.

Like she said, this sex toy is ideal for missionary position. I could feel the vibrations running across the top of my penis with each thrust. Her eyes were rolling back pretty good at the same time so I assume she was enjoying it as well. A second thumbs up for overall enjoyment!

Would I use this toy again? Absolutely. It was great. I do think the Lelo Tiani 3 is definitely a “Love Making” toy and not a wild and crazy toy by any stretch. It’s best for those anniversary nights where you just got rid of the kids and want to spend some quality time with your partner. I’m looking forward to giving it a shot in the bath tub, report coming soon :-).

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  • High quality
  • Super smooth
  • Works great in missionary
  • 8 vibration patterns
  • Vibration strength


  • Takes practice to get it in the right position
  • Not good for rough sex

Final Thoughts

This toy was certainly a fun time and the quality is among the best we have used. It is a great sensual experience and perfect for those passionate love making sessions.  A great product that we highly recommend.

This is a great sex toy for couples. It is a perfect way to cap off a nice night out or date night in. If you want to give it a try, take 15% off on us. Use the code LELOTIANI at checkout.


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Make Love Better

If you and your partner are looking for a twist on your sex life, then the Tiani 3 is for. It offers powerful vibrations, pleasure for the both of you and almost guaranteed satisfaction. 

Vital Statistics

Soft & Flexible For Your Body
TIANI™ 3 is built to be flexible for all body types. It molds specifically to your curves for a luxurious fit.

Wireless Remote Control For Your Pleasure
The SenseMotion™ remote offers a whole new dimension to your toys play if you choose. 

Better Sex for All Couples
The Lelo Tiani 3 is designed to create a new way for you and your partner to connect sexually. 

Lelo Tiani 3 couples Vibrator Features purple
8 Pleasure Settings

From a teasing murmur to a satisfying pulse

100% Waterproof

Perfect for the bath or shower

Fully Rechargeable

More power, less fuss

Remote Controlled

Wireless controls for adventurous pleasure

Hands On Experience

The Lelo Tiani 3 is an amazing addition to your lovemaking sessions. It's powerful vibration and silky smooth fit are bound to give you the orgasms you crave from sex. One arm vibrates powerfully inside you and the other massages your clitoris, all while transmitting the pleasure the whole way along his length while you make love.

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Serving Suggestions

How to insert the Tiani 3
Getting Acquainted

The Lelo Tiani 3 works by inserting the smaller arm in the vagina resting on your g-spot, and the larger arm pressed against your clitoris.  It's recommended to put the Tiani in place before your partner enters you. 

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What TIANI Does Best

Small enough to be comfortable but strong enough to give you explosive orgasms every sack session. The Tiani 3 can be used in any position, but we recommend starting with Missionary.

Lelo Tiani 3 for solo play
Ready to Be Pleased?

Lets say your partner isn't around, The Lelo Tiani 3 can be enjoyed solo or with paired with your favorite insertable sex toy.  Use the remote to find a vibration strength and pattern you like, then get to business.